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The robust debate about the link between social isolation and substance use disorders (SUD) has split addiction thought leaders into three camps – those who are vehemently opposed o the premise, those who fully agree, and those with a more nuanced view.
It is an inarguable fact that loneliness, social isolation, and lack of connectedness are a reality in the post-modern, technology- driven, industrialized, 21st century world. Across the globe, especially in urban areas, life is defined by ever shrinking or non-existent familial ties, sense of community, religious and other group affiliations, work arenas as primary social hubs, technology, social media, and virtual hubs as surrogates for physical connectedness, and living alone or in detached rooming arrangements with strangers.
Across the globe, the number of households occupied by solo dwellers has risen at a rapid rate. In the U.S., 35.7 million adults live alone, making up 28 percent of the nation’s households. the group consists of single, divorced, and widowed adults. While many report fulfilled, enriched lives, especially those who have left unhappy relationships or the primary caregiving of children, spouses, and parents; others confess shrinking circles of connectedness as a casualty of living alone. A recent study found that Americans have 3 lifelong friends, 5 good friends, 8 people they like but don’t usually date, 50 acquaintances, and 91 friends on social networks.
The study also found that 45% of adults say they find it difficult to make new friends. It also states that the average3 American has not made a new friend in five years. In fact, fo many it seems that popularity peaks at age 23, and 36% peaks even before age 21.
Addiction research has shown that substance abuse disorders are provoked by a number of factors including genetics, family history of addiction, adverse early childhood experiences, life circumstances, stress, mental disorders that co-occur with or create vulnerability to addictions, peer pressure, and environment. The inciting permutation of factors that make people susceptible to addiction varied from person to person.
Some people who suffer from mental disorders may never grapple with addiction, while others struggle with both- perpetuating a cycle of addiction, pain management, and mental illness.
However, within the whole range of causes of addiction, loneliness and social isolation are gaining attention as logical provocateurs of substance abuse disorders. This body of research is gaining currency and validity since recovery and relapse prevention is rooted firmly in the opposite-therapeutic individual and group encounters, solidarity and peer relationships, fellowship and acceptance in AA, connectedness, friendships, sharing, communication, share journeys of healing, and community.
Other addiction memoirists have written about teenage risk-taking behaviors such as drug use and sexual promiscuity as initial antidotes for boredom, in the absence of parental attention and affection and healthy extracurricular activities to preoccupy them. Idle minds and hands are the devil’s playground and workshop, are sayings frequently cited by drug users as the reason for their early use.
When we experience feelings of anxiety, loneliness, sadness, or despair, the reflexive urge to manage our negative feelings is to relieve the negative emotions. Some of us may choose healthy tools like exercise, others may choose to swipe credit cards to purchase items we can’t afford, others may engage in high risk and reckless behavior, and the rest may choose to self-medicate with drugs or alcohol.
Self-medication can numb our wretched feelings or erase them for a short time, but, left unchecked, will explode into a full addiction, with us needing increased doses to feel less numb or forget less.
Several pioneering rat studies have shown the relationship between substance use and peer relationship, most famously the seminal Rat Park experiment in the 1970s by Dr. Bruce Alexander. Prior experiments had already shown that caged rats in solitary confinement, when offered the choice between bottles holding water and heroin or cocaine, repeatedly chose the drug-infused bottles until they died of overdoses.
The cages were standard steel cages absent of stimuli.
Dr. Alexander hypothesized that giving rats an additional choice of an enriched environment and companionship would yield different results. Instead of steel cages, he built a rat park– a veritable paradise for rats. His study found that while the rats in solitary cages chose drug laced fluids over water, the socialized rats in rat park preferred plain water.
Further studies on both rats and humans have found a link between isolation and substance use, as well as between connectedness, peer pressure, and recreational drug use.
A 2018 rat study by National Institute of Drug Abuse led by Dr. Marco Venniro reiterated the role of social interactions on drug use and drug-associated cues to brain responses. In the study rates were given two choices: press a lever for a drug infusion of heroin and methamphetamine; or press a different lever to open a door and interact with another rat. More than 90 percent of the time, rats chose to forgo the drugs and open the door to engage with their peer.
In many cases, the rats that had pressed the lever for drugs for many days and exhibited behaviors that corresponded with human addictive behaviors still elected to engage with their peer.
While human responses are more complicated than rodent responses, these studies hold clues on how social rewards and social-based behavioral therapeutic modalities and social support and community reinforcement programs might be used in human addiction treatment prevention.
Psychiatrist and public health doctor, Dr. Lloyd Sederer, author of The Addiction Solution: Treating Our Dependence on Opioids and Other Drugs writes:
The reverse has also been found in the link between social connections and substance abuse-friends, families, peers, and social groups can influence drug and alcohol use and abuse, sobriety, and relapse. In a 2017 study, researchers found that recreational drug use take place in complex social settings with extensive codes and practices and that,
Loneliness can easily hook use into a downward spiral of self-hatred and despair and a strong desire to numb the negative feelings or to forget them-with alcohol or drugs or risky behavior. When you begin to feel extended loneliness, try to jolt the body and mind out of the downward spiral.
If you need to talk someone, there are many phone and chat helpline that offer emotional listening and support to those suffering from loneliness, isolation, and depression.
The Samaritans Helpline – 1-877-870-4673 is available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week by phone and text. They also offer online chats for those who prefer to use digital tools. They provide compassionate support to anyone who is feeling anxious, feeling isolated, depressed, or suicidal. It’s confidential and free to use.
The links between loneliness, isolation, connection, and addiction seem to be both basic and obvious and groundbreaking and radical.
At New Leaf Detox and Treatment, we view every client as an individual with a life story and a meta-narrative. In our clinical encounters with clients, we lean into their stories and narratives, about who they were before they fell down the rabbit hole of addiction, about their families, their communities, their social supports. We work with them to uncover what and who gives their lives meaning, and we journey with them as they work to turn over a new leaf.
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Amary Mey, David Plummer, Shailendra Anoopkumar-Dukie & Amber Domberelli (2018) What’s the attraction? Social connectedness as a driver of recreational drug use, Journal of Substance Use, 23:3, 327-334, DOI: 10.1080/14659891.2017.1409816
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